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Is the word 'queer' a useful way of describing behaviours typically performed by the minority of a population? (e.g. when men have sex with men)
Yes
No
Is the gay ‘community’ a real thing, or just an idea?
Real thing
Just an idea
Do you believe that having a racial preference in regards to attraction is mostly taught to you by society or mostly a biological phenomenon?
Society
Biological
Have the qualities of your current or ex boyfriend’s penis (e.g. size, shape, circumcision, etc.), or your own penis, ever felt like an issue in a relationship? Whether it was spoken about or not.
Yes
No
Do you believe an open relationship can work in the long term?
Yes
No
Is being gay a part of your personality or your sexuality?
Personality
Sexuality
Both
What traits do you have (other than your sexual preference), or choices do you make, that you think might reveal your sexual preference to others? (You can choose more than one).

I think it could be my:
clothes
voice
mannerisms
grooming
hobbies
friends
Is being a homosexual a part of your personality or your sexuality?
Personality
Sexuality
Both
Do you know a gay guy who, in your opinion, appears to struggle with alcohol or drug addiction?
Yes
No
Is there a significant difference between the gay ‘community’ and the gay ‘scene’?
Yes
No
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